Our Crisis Café pop ups are now running regularly.
Exact times and any changes will always be shared on our this page and in our newsletter.
We also have external workshops and sessions running in the space.
A calm, free, walk-in space for anyone who needs a moment to breathe.
Life can feel heavy sometimes. Not always in ways that look like a crisis, but in ways that are still difficult to carry alone.
The HRE4U Community Crisis Café exists for those moments.
It is a simple, welcoming space where you can walk in, have a drink, and take a pause from whatever you are facing.
You do not need an appointment. You do not need to explain everything. You can stay for a few minutes or a couple of hours. It is entirely up to you.
Our café currently runs as a regular pop-up space at St Faith’s Parish Hall in Waterloo.
While we work towards a permanent home, these pop-ups allow us to offer a calm, welcoming place in the community where people can drop in when they need it.
There is no referral process and no booking. If the door is open, you are welcome to come in.
This is not a clinical service and it does not feel like a waiting room.
It feels more like a quiet community café that happens to be safe.
When someone walks in they are usually offered a drink, something simple to eat, and a place to sit.
You do not have to talk.
You can sit quietly, gather your thoughts, or simply take a break from everything outside for a little while.
If you do feel like talking, trained volunteers are there to listen and gently help you think through what might help next.
Each pop-up is slightly different depending on the space and what support is available on the day, but the aim is always the same: a calm place where people feel welcome.
The café is open to anyone aged 18 or over who feels they need a supportive space.
You might be feeling overwhelmed, isolated, stressed, or simply unsure what to do next.
Many people who visit look completely fine on the outside while quietly struggling inside. This space is here for those moments.
What we offer instead is simple human support, calm conversation, and help finding the right next step if someone needs it.
We work hard to keep the café calm, respectful and safe for everyone.
Conversations are treated with care and privacy wherever possible. However, if someone is at serious risk of harm we may need to involve emergency or statutory services to help keep people safe.
If that situation arises, we always try to do this openly and respectfully with the person involved.
You can read more on our safeguarding page.
HRE4U began as an online space offering tools, guidance and support for people who are struggling.
The café is the next step.
A real-world space where someone can walk in, sit down, and not have to carry everything on their own for a while.
If you arrived here because things feel heavy right now, you do not need to read everything on this page.
You are welcome to come along to a café session, sit quietly, and leave whenever you want.
If you would rather look for other support right now, you can find options on our Get Help page.
Our community mental health café and pop-up spaces are now running regularly, supported by a small, dedicated team.
Recently, we’ve had a few sessions impacted by illness, which has meant cancelling at short notice. Because of that, we’re looking to build a small group of people who’d be open to stepping in when needed.
This isn’t about committing to a regular shift. It’s more about being someone we can reach out to when we’re short, and who may be available at reasonably short notice.
At the start, it’s about helping the space run smoothly and feel welcoming.
There’s no expectation to support people in crisis. If the role ever grows beyond this, full training will always be provided, and you’ll only ever take on more if and when you feel ready.
You don’t need to be a professional. What matters most is being calm, kind, and respectful.
If that feels like something you’d be open to, we’d really appreciate you getting in touch.
If you’d like to get involved, you can send us a message here. We’ll come back to you as soon as we can.
Here’s where we’ll be and what’s coming up.
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These are the distraction and grounding kits we use in our HRE4U spaces.
They’re designed to help people through intense moments by offering safer alternatives, simple grounding tools, and small comforts that can make things feel more manageable.
We’ve collaborated with S&L Self-Harm Distraction Kits to make these available here, keeping everything simple, calm, and true to how we actually use them in our popups and support spaces.
We share these because we genuinely believe in them and use them ourselves. When you click through, you’ll be taken to their website to purchase directly.
Our 40 piece Hre4u S&L Distraction Kit with sterile first aid items are designed for prevention and safety. Primarily focusing on the Delay and Replace Strategy with items for safer alternatives but also specific first aid for cutting style wounds.
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